Let us be inspired by the principles of the ancient Japanese Zen philosophy WABI-SABI, the art of an ability to accept in our surroundings as well as in ourselves, impermanence and incompleteness and find in that a simple beauty.
When we take how things – whether small or large (and in fact, it also applies to us and our lives) look like, our Western world is historically too obsessive by the effort for exaggerated perfection, symmetry and ideal proportions. It is a style refined with general rules and often even prejudices, mathematical calculations and taste of perfection and eternity.
Sure, thanks to this, we can admire beautiful works of art and the monumental architectural gems of our distant or recent past, but also the present.
But honestly, in everyday life, many of us do not want to and neither cannot identify with this concept of perfection, eternal youth, and the achievement of the universal ideal. It’s not just the nature of the world. Our lives are not perfect and accurate, according to the plan. Just as we are not perfect, symmetrical with ideal proportions. And certainly not forever young, whether we want it all that or not. Yet – our life can be beautiful and unique as we are. And if we can see in these “imperfections” just the certain beauty and uniqueness, sure our life can be also happier than the life of those, who keep trying to merge with the above-mentioned concept of perfection and eternity or those who are unsuccessfully expecting it all from their surroundings.
And that’s why so many people around the world get attracted by the concept of the Japanese aesthetic philosophy of wabi-sabi. Totally different from the aforementioned Western aesthetics, which still partly stems from Hellenic (Greek) aesthetics idealizing perfection, symmetry, eternity and majesty. On the contrary, Wabi-sabi emphasizes imperfection, asymmetry, nature, transience and humility.
Wabi-sabi refers to a deeper perception of inner beauty and life itself, of the beauty of imperfection, impermanence, melancholy. It not based on youth and flourishing, but rather believe that everything is always more beautiful revealing signs of the time and its individuality.
In the Western world, wabi-sabi has been very popular since the 1990s, especially in connection with the design, interior and garden architecture (more here). But when you become familiar with the principles of this philosophy, you will realize that wabi-sabi may be just as well a certain way of life.
Sure, against the original asceticism of the Japanese monks, we have made it a bit simpler in our current Western (American-European) civilization, and we have also certainly romanticized it. And probably that whiff of that certain romance and ubiquitous poetics is what probably not only me personally attracted in this way of looking at the world. I believe that, despite all the scars and wrinkles on our bodies and souls that we involuntarily “collect” during our lives, despite the parabola of our lives when a rise alternates a fall, a happiness alternates a sadness, despite all the personal falls and sad events, it is important to see eventually keep discovering the beauty of life again and again.
Wabi-sabi can us, even today, far continentally and in time from its creation (15th century Japan), inspire to a deeper appreciation of the beauty of ordinary things, events and people around us. Our life, whatever phase of it we are in, may simply be a little nicer, calmer and happier.